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From Force to Flow: The Day I Learned Real Influence



Here are the three key takeaways you’ll walk away with today:
  • Why True Influence is an "Inside-Out" Job: We’ll explore how your self-awareness—your personal temperament and mindset—is the non-negotiable foundation for influencing anyone else.
  • The Influence Trifecta: You'll learn the three core pillars of connection—Radical Empathy, Radical Benevolence, and Authentic Application—and how to use them to build unshakable trust.
  • From Theory to Action: You will get a simple, powerful action you can take this week to begin practicing this new model and see an immediate shift in your interactions.
So, if you’ve ever felt like you were shouting into the void, this episode is for you. Get comfortable, and let’s get into it.

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