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The Connection Code: Why Your Best Ideas Are Being Ignored (And How to Fix It)



Key Takeaways for Today's Episode:

  1. You’ll learn why your data and logic are failing you, and discover the one currency that truly matters in any high-stakes environment.
  2. We'll break down my 3-C framework—Connection, Clarity, and Choice—a simple yet profound model for getting anyone to not just hear your ideas, but to champion them.
  3. And finally, we'll confront the monster under the bed: that voice of "analysis paralysis" that keeps you from acting, and I’ll give you a simple tool to silence it for good.

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