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The Invisible Cage: What it is and how to escape

 In this episode:
  • The Biology of Fear: We will uncover the surprising, ancient biological reason why the fear of judgment feels like a physical threat, and how simply understanding this "outdated software" can dramatically reduce its power over you. 
  • The Listener's Advantage: You'll learn why the most influential person in the room is often the best listener, not the best talker, and I'll give you a simple framework to transform your communication from broadcasting to connecting. 
  • The Curiosity Cure: We’ll explore how the destructive habit of judging others is a barrier to your own success, and I'll give you a powerful mental exercise to replace judgment with curiosity, unlocking deeper trust and collaboration.

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